I have said and still believe that it is possible to have the right relationship at the wrong time in your life. It may mean something slightly different to different people, but the basic idea is the same: you date someone who is a good fit for your personality but the relationship doesn't work. This doesn't apply to all cases. Obviously not cases ( Read more... )

I had the most acute thought earlier. It was about a friend that I had some bizarre attraction to since I met him, but I don't think I'd ever bother to date him. The non-acute part was asking myself why I wouldn't. Not him specifically, but any old guy that I've met and I liked. I already know that it wouldn't go anywhere. Where AM I going? Three ( Read more... )

Relationships are hard, but there are a few things we all should keep in mind to keep a relationship healthy and moving forward. I recently read a blog where the author wrote out some common reasons that men end relationships and I think I would like to offer some perspective for BOTH sides of the game. This is not why every man or woman leaves; it ( Read more... )

What it's Like to Date a Pisces Woman:Pisces women are very captivating and fascinating. She makes a man feel like a man because of her need for a protector and leader. She is charming, soft and feminine. The ultimate enchantress. She can see right through a man and she is not easy to fool, so any man better be straight with her and not lead her on ( Read more... )

Too many times, too many of us have asked our friends and parents how they knew that their spouse was THE ONE and the same answer has been echoed: "I just knew". What does that mean? This feeling of knowing that seems to escape our lives in some many other areas seems to stand firm when it comes to relationships. There is no further explanation ( Read more... )

"We don't choose who we fall in love with, but we do get to choose whether we continue in a relationship and make things work"I hate it when people say "love is a choice". It is not. We have all, at some point or another, loved or been in love with someone that was bad for us and that we wished that we could relinquish. To say it is a choice is to ( Read more... )

I feel a little awkward. I feel like I've failed at an experiment I was conducting; I feel like I've failed at a serious life goal I feel like I won the lottery and I tore up the ticket. I feel like I took a test and I passed but not with a good score. It's plain to see, now, what things I got wrong, but at the time I always doubted the problems ( Read more... )

I think Semagic is working! It's a shame I can't read my FLISt, though ( Read more... )

I woke up today and I was over you.
Just like that. It's all out. Reason and reality have taken over.

Interesting. Life has a funny way of finding ways to change your mind. I'll wait and see what's next.

The gender divide: Where you end and I begin

I was reading this article by Rabbi Schmuley and it reminded me of a distant and faint idea that I once had about men and women ( Read more... )